Ever wondered what would be the 'one' philosophy that would allow us all to live a happy, satisfied life? The crux of the 'one' idea that would let us a live a life with no regrets nor any disturbances and antagonies? .. and hence, also the greatest strength of character?

Each person would have their own answer to this question- which would constitute their life's phil. or moral.
To me.. The greatest strength and the one truth i follow is ...' To be truthful to yourself no matter what! ' .
Why live a life where you are trying to make yourself believe something that is not true.. or try to be someone that you are not? Why do something just for another's sake.. when it goes against the very principles you believe in ? An act that eases another's pain and discomfort and that you don't loathe to do is fine. But why do something or be someone when you think something else instead and refuse to give voice to your own thoughts. yeah.
And what meaning would our lives hold if all our actions are instead controlled and affected by others' ?
Are you even being 'honest' to yourself by pretending that the excuses you give yourself justify your actions.. we know when we lie to ourselves or to others and when we don't do something we should have done or vice.v. then why lie about it all? then why do it at all? and then give excuses and pseudo-reasoning?
I don't understand the logic behind lying to another person and pretending to be someone else or even agreeing with something when you don't believe in it. What is the point? other than to appease someone else? and who is that someone to us?
Is any man or cause, reason enough to to let us not be our own selves? no matter if it for grades or professors or friends or enemies.. what can be a greater principle or thought than to be honest with ourselves?

I believe, rather than talking ourselves into believing false things, we are better off and will become much stronger if we can accept ourselves for what we are, understand ourselves first, and then setting about to change or improve ; and through it all, being proud of precisely what we are, what we do and what we belive in. Not caring what the whole world says as long as we are truthful to ourselves and don't hesitate even a little to tell the world what we are and what we belive in.

For its me who was born alone and its me who shall die alone, and I am the only one who makes sense to me. This world and I owe nothing to each other, except to live in mutual harmony.